Heartbreaks and Endless Possibilities



“The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it…”
― Nicholas Sparks, At First Sight

UP Los Banos Palm Drive
UP Los Banos Palm Drive


You wake up one day and you realize that you’ve fallen in love. He was dashing, like the ones on television; the captain of the basketball team, Mr. Face of the night at your junior year’s prom. Every girl would swoon and sigh whenever he walks down the hallway and above all else, he could sing. 


It was as if he was taken straight out of those chick flicks that you and your best friends would love to watch on a rainy Monday with all the chips and ice cream and accompanied by the latest album of one of your favorite boy bands. You’ve seen all of his photos at least thrice and know every last girl who has left a comment on each one. You would wait for every single holiday just so you could send him a greeting. Even the slightest sound of his name would make your head tingle and your mind burn with passion.

 A little push was all you needed to finally say hello (Oh, and a lot of encouraging from your BFFs). One thing led to another, and suddenly you were hanging out. You didn’t have to wait for a holiday anymore to send him a message and now you could view his photos without having to use your little brother’s account. He would say hello every time he passes by you and you would hear all the other girls hiss and growl at you like jungle animals ready to attack. 


You’re friends now! Every little detail that made you love him before can now be enjoyed live via-satellite. You thought you could never ever like anyone as much as you like ice cream and bacon or Ross Geller from FRIENDS. You were wrong. Darling, you were very wrong. 

You were in love. . . . . At least, you thought you were. 


Long story short, he broke your heart. And wow, he broke it real good. You’ve taken the courage to actually tell him how you feel. Stupid, yes but you would rather let him know, than spend more hours waiting for him to actually look at you for real. Sadly, he doesn’t feel the same. All those nights spent on fantasizing about your epic love story and dedicating love songs for him would turn to tweeting movie lines from “One More Chance” and “Starting Over Again. 


Your Facebook chat is full of sessions with your friends on how “He doesn’t deserve you” or “It’s his loss, girl”, or all those consolation prize answers, ready to give to someone with a broken heart. Your life was so much better when he wasn’t around. 


You were actually okay with just giving love advice to your girl friends, but there he goes, making you fall in love with him, making you believe in happy endings and then suddenly cutting you off. You assumed too much, and girl, trust me, we all do. WE. ALL. DO. 


 You wake up one day and everything has changed. He was still unbelievably attractive, he could still sing and yes, he was still the man of your dreams. But unlike before, there was this strong feeling that it would never be the same. The story of your life is goes on, you are still the princess and everything still revolves around your life (At least, in your perspective). And of course he is still the Prince Charming, witty and good with his words, white horse and sword unsheathed, obviously beating all the other princes from every kind of fairy tale imaginable. 


But you just have to accept that he wasn’t your prince, not in this fairy tale, and there’s nothing to do but accept that. 


Maybe the timing was off, maybe he just wasn’t sure, maybe in a year or so we could be together. Maybe I’m just thinking too much. Getting your heart broken sucks. And having to think about maybes and other endless possibilities suck even more, especially if they would never ever come true. 


Have you ever gotten your heart broken? I feel you. 

Tweet me @Baldyosa or Follow me on Instagram at @Chardeebee

 

This post is dedicated to my dear friend, (- The Girl on Fire) May you remember to always love yourself more, and to continue on bringing joy to everyone around you! Love you!

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